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When it relates to success there are a TON of sayings,
philosophies, strategies, ideas, and or concepts...I
will never claim I have the definitive one, ever, but
this one is near the top. I guarantee you this one
concept, if applied, will change your life.

This applies to all areas of your life, and I think
balance is massively important. The people who seek
great wealth tend to have a poor quality of life, but
the people who seek quality of life are the wealthiest
people I know. It?s unfortunate, and I have been
there, how we can get preoccupied with one area of life
and all the other areas suffer. So keep this in mind
as you apply this concept.

I think all of us who are into personal development
know of this idea that; your mind only dreams the
things that you can achieve, and once you believe your
dream all kinds of events will come together to make it
happen for you. There is a theory that what you want
moves towards you as you move towards it...but we need
to move towards it.

So down to business, right?

I have always heard that two things you can?t do at the
same time is make excuses and be successful. Even more
than that, and the concept that sparked this topic in
my mind, is:
The one thing you can?t do is say you can?t.

Think about this; if you want to make your dreams a
reality...if you want a happy relationship...if you
want to get good at ANYTHING...the one thing you can?t
do is say you can?t, if you do it?s over.

Next time you say ?I can?t do that?...change it and say
?I won?t do that?, then does it still make sense to
you? The ideas that come into you wouldn?t be there if
you couldn?t do them.

I will give you one example; I think most people wake
up on Monday and are not happy about where they are
about to go. Now you may say ?I can?t leave my
job?...that?s a good excuse, but what it really is, is
?I won?t leave my job?. Does it still make sense why
you are there?

Don?t get me wrong, if you are not happy about your
job, don?t run and quit! Purpose is not happiness,
pain and pleasure is the pursuit of purpose. But you
need to do what you can link to your values. When you
are working on your values, you can put your heart into
it, and you will enjoy what you do...for the most
part.

You are the CEO of your life, and you can give yourself
permission to; achieve, have, do, be anything you want.
So where do you direct your energy? Where the rewards
of learning that new skill outweigh the ?cost? of
learning it, and remember this principle of success:
you will get back all that you give out.

Now think of at least 5 things that you have been
saying, well I can?t do that. Stop reading, this will
still be here in half an hour.

There are a few of the reasons why you have been
programmed why you won?t do something, not can?t, but
won?t:

Fear of what will other people say? You cannot set
goals based on what other people want! To do that is
an imbalance of your life. The people who matter will
support you, and the people who don?t support you don?t
matter!

Fear of failure; we only have 2 choices in life,
success or failure, and you are always making a
decision to do one or the other. And if you are not
living the life you want to, you are failing, plain and
simple.

Fear of success! This to me is the WORST! People
today are worried about winning, they think for some
reason they don?t deserve it. They feel like they are
stepping on someone?s toes (or something). You deserve
to succeed, everyone has the right to.

They are all Fears, I am not sure if Zig Ziglar came up
with this acronym, but he is who I heard it from
first...I have heard it numerous times since:

F-alse
E-vidence
A-ppearing
R-eal

If you knew you couldn?t fail, what would your life
look like? Your failure is in the 6 inch space between
your ears. You are endowed for greatness, and you are
supposed to let your dreams design, and guide your
life.

Don?t let something you IMAGINE, destroy your chance to
live your dream!
Don?t let anyone talk you out of your dream!
Remember, you are someone too.

You can?t say can?t,
Jay Kanik
Success Coach
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I gave up a $115k/yr job for this?

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